How to sue someone who owes you money.

Friend, family member, ex, or stranger. With or without a written agreement. Small claims is built for these cases. Most informal loans are recoverable: bank records, texts, witness testimony, and the borrower’s own statements all establish the agreement. Most cases settle once a demand letter arrives.

$4,500
$6,200
$3,800
$2,800
$5,400
$4,200
Recovery by stateillustrative · varies by case

What kind of loan are you trying to recover?

Each guide covers what you can recover, what evidence to bring, and how to file in your state.

Someone owes me money

General loan recovery. Bank record + texts + state legal interest. Most informal loans are recoverable in small claims.

Friend not paying back

Venmo/Zelle records + text messages establish the loan. Most cases settle once a demand letter arrives.

Family member owes money

Family loans get an extra hurdle: courts often assume money between family is a gift. Bank memos noting 'loan,' text messages, and any written agreement overcome that. Be ready for family fallout.

Ex owes me money

Post-breakup money recovery. Same hurdle as family — courts may assume it was a gift — but bank memos and texts solve that. Pure cohabitation-era loans (not jointly held property) fit small claims.

IOU not paid back

The strongest evidence you can have. A signed IOU (also called a 'promissory note') is a contract. You have 4-6 years to sue. Most defenses fail at the hearing.

Verbal agreement

Oral contracts are enforceable in most states — you don't need a written one. Combine bank records + text messages + witnesses to prove the agreement existed.

Cash loan not repaid

Cash is harder to trace but still winnable. ATM withdrawal records + a witness to the handoff + the borrower's texts acknowledging the loan combine to make the case.

Debt without a contract

Even with no formal contract, two legal theories can win the case: the borrower benefitted from your money without paying ('unjust enrichment'), or they promised to repay and you relied on that promise. Bank records plus messages where they understood they owed you are enough.

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How small claims handles personal loan disputes.

Small claims is the standard venue for informal loans between people. Most state caps fall between $5,000 and $20,000. You do not need a written contract to win. Bank records, payment-app screenshots, and the borrower’s own messages all establish the loan.

Belongs in small claims

01
Money you can prove you transferred. Venmo, Zelle, Cash App, ATM withdrawals, canceled checks — the dollar amount is right there in the record.
02
Loans where the borrower acknowledged it in a text. Messages like 'I'll pay you back next month' or 'sorry, I'll get it to you' beat the it-was-a-gift defense almost every time.
03
Written IOUs. Even a one-line note ('I owe you $X, will pay by Y') is a contract.
04
Interest from when it was supposed to be paid back. Most states let you ask for 7 to 10 percent interest per year, running from the agreed repayment date forward.
05
Your filing fee and service-of-process costs. Both get added to the judgment if you win — the borrower pays them back.

Doesn’t belong here

Loans documented only by your memory. No bank record, no texts, no witness. Hard to win without something written down at the time.
Loans past the filing deadline. Written contracts give you 4-6 years; verbal agreements 2-4 years. For older claims, you need the borrower to have acknowledged the debt recently in writing to restart the clock.
Gambling debts. Most states won't enforce these.
Investments that didn't pay off. If you funded their business and lost it, courts treat that as investor risk, not a loan — and it goes to regular civil court.
Damages

What can you recover?

The math judges use. A typical informal-loan case stacks the principal, pre-judgment interest, and filing fees.

Original loan

The amount you transferred plus any costs you paid on the borrower’s behalf.

$3,500
Base amount
Pre-judgment interest

State legal rate (7-10% per year typical) running from agreed repayment date.

+$500
Multiplier
Filing fee

Filing fee, service-of-process cost, post-judgment interest until paid.

+$200
Typical recovery
Estimated recovery$4,200Sample math on a typical informal loan. Your numbers will differ.
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What evidence do you need to recover money you’re owed?

Personal-loan cases are won on the paper trail. Bank records, payment-app screenshots, and the borrower’s own messages overcome almost every defense. The judge wants to see the transfer, the agreement to repay, and proof you asked.

Bank or payment-app records

Statement, transfer screenshot, or canceled check showing the dollar amount and date you sent it.

Written IOU or promissory note

Even a handwritten note. If you have one, this is the strongest single piece of evidence in the case.

Texts and chat messages

Anything where the borrower says ‘pay back,’ ‘loan,’ ‘I owe you.’ Venmo memo lines count too. Screenshot the whole thread.

Demand letter and proof of delivery

Certified-mail receipt or email read-receipt. Shows you gave them a chance to pay before filing.

Witness statement

A friend, partner, or coworker who heard the agreement or saw the cash change hands. A short signed declaration helps.

Repayment schedule (if any)

If you had a plan, even informal, write it down with dates and amounts. Missed payments anchor your timeline.

By state

State-specific rules.

Statute of limitations varies (2 to 6 years for oral, 4 to 10 for written). Pre-judgment interest rates differ. Some states require notice before suit. Pick yours for the exact rules.

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Take the next step

Three ways to move forward.

Got back $5,000 from a friend who stopped answering. Venmo records and texts were all I needed.

Anna L.
Lender · Illinois
FAQ

Common questions.

The questions lenders actually ask before filing. Don’t see yours? Email support.

Can I sue someone who owes me money?

Yes, when the amount fits your state’s cap (usually $5,000 to $20,000). Most informal loans are recoverable: friend loans via Venmo, family loans, oral agreements, IOUs, cash loans, even loans without a written contract under unjust enrichment theory.

Do I need a written contract to sue?

No. Verbal agreements are enforceable in most states. Bank records, texts, and witness testimony combine to prove the agreement existed. Even with no explicit agreement at all, two alternative legal theories can win the case: 'unjust enrichment' (they benefitted from your money without paying you back) or 'promissory estoppel' (they promised to repay and you relied on that).

How long do I have to sue?

Written contracts/IOUs: 4 to 6 years in most states (some give you up to 10). Verbal contracts: 2 to 4 years. The clock usually starts on the agreed repayment date — or, if there wasn't one, the first time you asked for the money back. Don't sit on it.

What if the borrower says it was a gift?

Bring the texts. The borrower's own words — 'pay back,' 'loan,' 'I owe you,' even a Venmo memo line that says 'loan' — beat the gift defense. People rarely send 'pay back' messages for actual gifts.

Can I charge interest?

Yes, if you agreed on a rate in advance. Even without an agreement, you can ask for the state's default rate (typically 7 to 10 percent per year). Note: every state caps how much interest you can charge — rates above that limit are illegal and can void the whole loan.

This is general legal information, not legal advice. CivilCase is not a law firm. Statutes of limitations, the Statute of Frauds, and pre-judgment interest rates vary by state. Verify deadlines and citations against your state’s official source before filing. Read our disclaimer.